What She Knew About Healing
MADA BENT didn’t read ingredients — she read leaves. Didn’t follow routines she followed the moon. She made medicine in silence, or while humming, or while calling on names no longer spoken aloud. Her hands were cracked from labour, but soft with knowledge.
Her skin held the memory of hot sun, dewy rain, and the whisper of plants that only revealed their secrets to those who knew that healing doesn’t start in sterile jars. It starts in the soil. It starts in the breath that says, I need mending.
She taught us that cocoa butter is a balm for grief. That castor oil roots the spirit when it feels like it’s floating too far. That moringa isn’t just for strength — it’s for memory.
She didn’t write anything down, but her wisdom lives in the palms. In how we rub oil into our legs after a long day. In how we steam our faces over boiled orange peel and bay leaf. In how we make time for care, even when the world says rush.
We remember the way she sang while straining herbs through cloth. The way she used aloe vera and touched every wound with her whole heart. The way she said, “The skin listens so speak with gentleness”. She didn’t call it skincare. She called it care and that was enough.
She taught us the body remembers. She knew that skin, like soil, responds to tenderness. Not just bruises, but blessings. So when you rub oil into your limbs, you’re not just moisturizing, you’re recalling your name. Because to touch your own skin with reverence, to see it not as a problem, but a page on which your lineage is written — that is an act of devotion.
This is not nostalgia. This is inheritance. This is survival coded in rituals. This is skinwear. This isn’t beauty. It’s bloodline.
Join the ritual. Build the Basin, fill with hot water. Add what the land gives:
- Citrus for Clarity.
- Lavender for Circulation.
- Dried Rose for Boundaries.
- Rosemary for Remembrance.
Let the steam rise. Anoint With Intention. Lean in slowly. Close your eyes. Let your skin open like a prayer. Let each gesture carry a message.
I am here in presence.
I am whole in essence.
I am held in grace.
Let your skin absorb the story. No rinsing. No rushing. Just soaking in the remembrance. This is Yard. This is Body as Temple.